Keep Your Goals And Dreams To Yourself

The law of attraction works better if you keep your goals or dreams to yourself but many people become enthusiastic about their new goals after they set them and as a result they feel like telling others about them. While there can be some benefits of discussing your goals with others such as getting useful advice, still there are bad consequences that could happen as a result of sharing your goals and dreams with those people.

Even if you were so motivated your mind can get programmed by their beliefs and as a result you might find yourself demotivated just because you discussed your goals and dreams with some of your friends. Don't underestimate the effect of subconscious mind programming especially if the programming was coming from a trusted source.

A study has shown that when people tell others about their goals they tend to feel that they have already achieved a part of the goal which results in De-motivating them. Let's suppose you wanted to complete a certain degree. Once you tell your friends about it and they start to praise you for it you will experience a sense of achievement even though you did nothing.

This sense of achievement is experienced because those people will see your new future identity even though you didn't acquire it yet. As a result you will feel that part of the goal is already completed and you will become less motivated to achieve it.

What are the consequences of telling people your dreams?

Now talking out of experience, one of the facts many people are not aware of is it that jealousy doesn't know anything about friendship or blood connection. The closest person ever to you can become jealous of your achievements or even your future goals if you sounded serious enough.

Moreover, if the person who became jealous of you was not a good person he might start putting you down even if you were positive about your goals (dream killers). However some of your friends have good intentions, they don’t mean you any harm; it’s just that they will automatically inject fear and doubt into your plans, rendering them inept because;

They see in you what they fear to do.

The sight of you going for your dreams reminds them of their lack of courage to do so.

They secretly want you to fail.

They want to see you defeated in order to justify their own cowardice.

In short, once you find the dream you want to accomplish, keep it to yourself. It avoids dream killers. Unless you have somebody you trust that will encourage you to go for your dreams, keep it to yourself If you really want them alive. Because the dangers of stating your goals to others are big and it's much better to keep them to yourself.

However, if you do decide to tell people, remember not to listen to their negativity. Turn off deaf ears because it serves no useful purpose. Just keep at it and prove them wrong.

Thanks for reading!

1 comment

  1. Wow...this is so true! God bless you Naomi & keep up the good work.


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